September 11, 2020

A conversation to be continued

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Most left for economic reasons. Some were political refugees. Ivan came because he couldn’t stand being humiliated anymore.

He was a peasant, working on an estate near Kamianets-Podilskyi, in Podillia, part of the fertile black-earth (chornozem) region of Russian-occupied Ukraine. The year was 1912. One morning, listening to the estate’s mistress telling him what his daily chores were, he noticed she was sitting on a chamber pot, doing her business as she rattled off her orders. He couldn’t take that. So, at age 22, along with his friend, Sam Mehalosky, he escaped. The lads went through Romania to Germany, from where they took passage on a Hamburg-America Line steamship, the SS Pallanza, heading for this Dominion. Both settled in Kingston and found work in the Davis Tannery. Eventually, Ivan bought a farm off Sydenham Road.

Ivan returned to the “old country” only once, in May 1914, to get married. The plan was for his wife, Carolina, to soon follow him. When the Great War broke out in August 1914, they were separated for over a decade. She did not get to Canada until 1925. Their son was born a year later. He was named Mitchell John, but everyone called him Mitch.

I first met Mitch on February 12, 1978. I was doing an M.A. on the historical geography of Ukrainians in Kingston. I don’t remember who thought he would be a good source – most likely Nellie Hoba or Maria Charitoniuk, two interwar immigrants – so I drove out to the Andriesky farm. Mitch certainly had a lot to say. And, as a 1953 graduate of Queen’s University – the year I was born – he relished telling the son of post-World War II refugees about what life had been like here before my parents arrived. Since his Dad was one of the very first Ukrainians in Kingston, Mitch was a fount of information.

One story he told was about Nikita Natalsky, another young man who came from Ukraine before 1914. In Barriefield, on July 29, 1915, Nikita enlisted with the 59th Infantry Battalion of the Canadian Expeditionary Force. Private Natalsky (No. 455041) ended up on the Western Front, suffering a bullet wound, a poison gas attack and a venereal disease. Discharged after the war’s end as “medically unfit for further service” on February 17 1919, Nikita returned to Kingston. He fell mortally ill on June 12, 1922, and died, the cause of death listed as “tuberculosis.” He was buried the very next day. No record exists of who paid the $7 burial fee, but with no family here and no government department willing to make the arrangements, Mitch said it was all left for Ivan Andriesky to take care of. He did, even paying for Nikita’s gravestone. It still stands alongside those of Natalsky’s fellow soldiers in the Field of Honor at the Cataraqui Cemetery, a national historic site.

After hearing this, I made it a personal duty to visit Private Natalsky’s grave annually, saying a prayer and laying a poppy for him on Remembrance Day. But in 2018 I was out of the country. When I resumed my vigil last year, I was alarmed to see how an orange-colored lichen had almost obliterated the inscription on Natalsky’s gravestone. I contacted Veterans Affairs and the Commonwealth War Graves Commission. They weren’t willing to do anything.

So I phoned Mitch. Generously, he offered to contribute to the headstone’s restoration. I declined, saying we’d find the money elsewhere. We got a Ukrainian Canadian Veterans Fund grant from the Shevchenko Foundation and support from the Ukrainian Canadian Club of Kingston.

Alexander Gabov finished the conservation work just a few weeks ago. I remember waking up on July 28 and thinking I needed to call Mitch to share the good news. But the day got away from me. I didn’t phone. Then I got sad news. Mitch died on the morning of July 30.

I thought about this when we buried Mitch the other day. I remembered how Ivan and Sam left Ukraine together, spent their lives in Kingston and died within a few weeks of each other, to be laid to rest, side by side, in St. Mary’s Cemetery. I always felt Mitch and I should visit their graves. I never got around to organizing that either, not until the other day. It was only when I went to see where Mitch’s ashes would be committed to the earth that I finally saw the gravestones of Ivan Andriesky and Sam Mehalosky.

My friend Mitch now rests there in peace, with his mother and father, covered with soil brought from the Andriesky farm. He would have appreciated the symbolism.

When my time comes I will be laid to rest not far away. Mitch knew that. So I expect the conversation we began many years ago to be continued.

 

Lubomyr Luciuk is a professor of political geography at The Royal Military College of Canada in Kingston, Ontario.